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November 24

Family Planning National Policy in China--a letter to pen pal, June

June
 
Wow, first of all, I have to tell you what the Family Planning National Policy in China is, it began from 1983, after the start of China's Reforms in 1978. Dengxiaoping is great, till this year, the 30-year-reform is making China splendid and prosperous. No Reform no an ambitious China.
 
The Family Planniing(FP) is going along with the Reform, aimed at controlling the national population, it's not about the human rights, it's all about our national circumstances, it's all about our reforms at that time, we have Confucius Theory, "sacrifice individual, perfect family", without that FP, without that Reform, we probably now can not feed up ourself, our population will not be now 1.3 billion.
 
The FP policy, simply, government asked for every family, A couple is allowed to have one child, not what you said a baby boy, a pregnant lady is forbidden to check her baby's sex. But people now in rural area are still thinking about having baby boys.
 
According to some speciality, what situations does the FP allow a couple have two kids? I get two points showed you, 1-- the couple who is from rural area or their "Hukou" both are villager( but now many many villagers are much richer than citizen in city, heheh...), and the first kid is a girl. 2--a single son got married with a single daughter(a single son/daughter means their parents have only one kid). The FP has changed a little bit.
 
The thought of Having a baby boy is still a basic root for those people who live in rural, because they think only a boy can make their family legacy continued, and only a boy can do the farmer jobs, but for the urban people, it has changed. What you read those terrible news I think happened many many years ago, government is commiting herself to protect and perfect the women rights. No one can force you to tie your uterus now.
 
Why were we eagerly waiting for the Olympic? one of reasons is let people around the world know us, let them know what we look like now and what we changed.
 
"some men can have more than 1 girlfriends/wives", what's behind this? that's many people got rich! many men usually are a creature when they got rich, what do you think of a creature can do? girlfriend is only one, wife is only one, others or another wife(illegal) we called "underground lover". Those girls chose to take the position because they wanted a comfortable life and this is a easy way to take. Give and take, even, they got what they want, heheh
 
One more question, the population rate is in a bad percentage now, in 2020, more than 30,000,000 Men are difficult to get women, get no women married. Not "get men".
 
This time class is over----to be continued.
 
Derek
November 23

Review big events over the past three months

Summary
1--The Melamine scandal in China, caused the trust crisis in food territory. It still last.
2--The perfect success of Shenzhou 7 Spaceship. Cosmonaut, Astronaut, it's time now Taikonaut.
3--The global financial crisis( financial tsunami), many giant enterprises fell down, how long will it last for?
...
August 08

2008/8/8 8:08pm 农历初8

I want to freeze this time forever!

We’re here together to celebrate this moment!

No one can stop a prosperous and ambitious China standing in the world.

 

祖国万岁!祝福祖国日益强盛!!!!!!!!

August 07

One World One Dream is coming true tomorrow

Beijing2008 is coming!!!!!!!
Wow, we don't need to stay up to watch games this time, I would like to lie down myself with a BIG(chinese character) shape on my bed to enjoy this big event. And what would you do? just click the link to know what the games schedule are and enjoy watching them. Cheer up!
July 24

How to answer your wife in chinese family

Here displayed some scenarios as many wives have questioned before, what should we do? Take the answers as below.问题一:你爱我吗?
错误答案A'爱。'
错误答案B'这还用问吗?'
错误答案C'你烦不烦啊?
标准答案:目光怜爱的望着对方三秒,然后神情的点一下头,同时发出''的声音,然后一把把她揽在怀里......
解析:答案A会让她觉得你太不严肃了,纯粹胡弄她;答案B会让她觉得你对她的爱不够坚定,而且她一定会喋喋不休的问到底,让你给她明确的答案,够你烦的;答案C 后一定是一顿大架或冷战。其实女人对男人是不是爱她这件事儿心里特有数,她这么问纯粹就是撒娇调情,你抱抱她亲亲她比回答什么都让她高兴。
问题二:你看我这件衣服好看吗?
错误答案A'挺好看的。'
错误答案B'还行。'
错误答案C'真好看,我老婆穿什么都好看。'
标准答案:来来来,转一圈让我看看......'待她害羞的转完一圈后,把她拉过来,拉 着她的手微笑的看着他说:'真挺好看的。
解析:答案A会让她觉得你应付她;答案B会让她觉得没自信,在她心里她穿什么你都 应该觉得好;可是如果真说好看,像答案C一样她又会觉得你花言巧语不真诚。所以啊,你要表示出对她提的这个问题的认真程度,必须要仔细的看看再说。
问题三:在她把她的闺蜜介绍给你认识之后,回到家她问:'你觉得我这朋友怎么样啊?'
错误答案A'挺漂亮的。'
错误答案B'不怎么样,比你差远了。'
错误答案C'我都没怎么注意她。'
标准答案:我觉得她对你挺真诚的,应该好好珍惜这样的朋友。 
解析:答案A纯粹是没事儿找抽型的,女人是绝不能允许你在她面前说别的女人好的(当然,母亲除外。);答案B听着就太假了;答案C你一定觉得回答得挺高明的吧,她压根儿就不会信,而且她会展开想像分析你为什么不愿意对她的朋友进行评价。所以,要避开问题,转个弯儿回答,让她觉得你一切都是为她着想,她会有被呵护照顾的感觉。
问题四:你觉得我胖了吗? 
错误答案A'没胖。'
错误答案B'好像是胖了。'
错误答案C'呦,是不是最近太累啊,怎么都瘦成这样了?
标准答案:过来让我抱抱,等抱过之后你再说:我就喜欢你这样的,有点肉。
解析:答案A回答得太干脆了吧,她听着不过瘾。答案B纯属找骂,女孩子怎么能喜欢听别人说她胖呢?即使你再三强调你喜欢胖的,她还会不高兴;答案C听着都那么虚伪,现在的女人哪那么好蒙啊。其实,在女人的心里,她还是希望男人不在乎她的胖瘦,虽然嘴上说为了你减肥,其实是为了自己更漂亮,能穿更多好看的衣服。所以你用肢体语言表示出你喜欢她有点儿肉就可以了。
问题五:我和你前女友比起来,你更喜欢哪一个?
错误答案A'废话,当然是你了,要不然干吗跟你在一起。'
错误答案B'嗯,怎么说呢,如果让我说实话,各有千秋吧。'
错误答案C'她比你差远了。'
标准答案:狠狠的咬她一口或亲她一下或捏她的小脸蛋,等到她撒娇的嗷嗷叫的时候你就说:'下次再问这种无聊的问题,还得这么惩罚你。'
解析:答案A也太生硬直接了吧,她接下来就会问:'那你以后碰见比我好的是不是也得把我踹了啊?'答案B您就等着分手吧,忒实在了也。答案C听上去还不错,但你这不是抽自己嘴巴嘛,你说自己前女友不好会让女人很得意而降低了你自己的身价。其实在女人心里,她特别希望你的前女友是个特别优秀的女人,而偏偏是你不愿意跟她好了,这样女人心里会有成就感的。可是你又不能直接说前女友有多好,所以就用她喜欢的方式来回避问题吧(至于她是喜欢你捏她的脸蛋儿还是咬她一口我们就不知道了)。
问题六:如果我和你妈妈同时掉进水里,你会救哪一个?
错误答案A'你有聊无聊啊?'
错误答案B'一块儿救。'
错误答案C'宝贝儿,别难为我,再说这种情况也不会发生的。'
标准答案:哦,我没告诉你吧,我妈是游泳健将。
解析:虽说问这个问题确实很无聊但你也不能像答案A那样,这会引来喋喋不休的争吵;答案B她一定会不甘心的追问下去,你不想清静清静吗?答案C听上去还不错,但还是很牵强。不如就幽默一回,别让她一天到晚的老杞人忧天没事儿找事儿了。
问题七:如果我老了难看了你还会爱我吗?
错误答案A'不可能,你老了也好看。'
错误答案B'女人不同的年龄段有不同年龄段的魅力......'
错误答案C'没事儿,你老了我也好不到哪儿去,咱俩谁也别嫌弃谁。
标准答案:我巴不得你难看点儿老点儿呢,这样放在家里多放心啊。
解析:答案A她听着也高兴,但心里知道这是绝对不可能的;答案B就赶紧打住吧,唐僧来了;答案C不就说她老了肯定不好看了嘛,她怎么能接受呢?所以啊,最聪明的答案就是既让她打消顾虑又让她知道你特别在意她特别怕失去她。

July 23

What do you think of this

U.S. survey: flirt = disloyalty?

Although the majority of Americans say it is unacceptable, nearly one in four married adults still cheat on their spouses.

    But what constitutes being unfaithful differs among men and women, according to a new survey.

    Most people questioned in the poll agree physical contact -- including kissing someone other than your partner -- means you are cheating. But 77 percent of women also think using the Internet for online sexual talk or cavorting in front of a Webcam is also cheating, compared to only 57 percent of men.

    "We've always had the inside scoop about what's on the minds of women, especially when it comes to relationships, said Deborah Fine, president of iVillage Inc, a media firm dedicated to women.

    "This new survey gives us a closer look at how both men and women feel about the topic of fidelity," she added in a statement.

    Nearly three-quarters of women also feel sending flirtatious emails is cheating, as opposed to 53 percent of men.

July 22

The good faucet brought me a bad conflict

It was all about the water faucet’s fault. It started a simple thing, I found the bad faucet and repaired it with a new one. But it caused me the conflict with my father. A small blemish he was roaring with “you want me die?” Shit, the god damn faucet. 人真是越老越变态, 害死这词儿也用上了, 虽然知道老人家的心里, 要引起注意, 要保持权威性, ……道理的作用主导了我, 也延续了冲突的开始.

我在想自己以后绝不会是如此的不可理喻或者变态, 但谁知道呢, 我们或许真的不能抗拒生理程序带来的副作用, 克服了这方面, 那方面或多或少又冒出变态源头来. We actually don’t know what we will be when we're getting older after our menopause.

July 19

Let go

The poesy which has been going the rounds online these two months, don't read, just keep it as a memory we’ve gone through.

Remember how I do love you

Baby, please don’t cry,

Although mum is also very thin and weak,

Yet even with a slight strength left for me

I won’t let bricks and stones fall on you.

Think more about our play this morning,

Which will drive out your nightmare temporarily.

 

Baby, please sleep,

Don’t be so scared.

Although it is very cold

And there is no cradle like the one at home here,

Yet under my body

The debris could also transmit warmth.

 

Baby, are you hungry?

Although mum understand the look in your eyes

And your constant crying,

Yet mum couldn’t bend down to feed you.

Although this space is the smallest,

Mum has held it open for you with efforts.

 

Baby, please listen!

The voice of rescuers is drawing nearer and nearer

which is the calling for lives.

Although mum is leaving you further and further with time,

Yet even with one more breath

Mum will break through a crevice for you to see the sunshine.

 

Baby, Good-bye

Mum is really leaving you.

When the outside people pick you up,

Don’t look back at my appearance

Which might scare you.

But as long as you are alive,

Remember how I do love you!

Love and Marriage

Love and Marriage-- (adopted)

 

Love is holding hands in the streetMarriage is holding arguments in the street

Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant
Marriage is Chinese take-out


Love is cuddling on a sofa
Marriage is deciding on a sofa

Love is talking about having children
Marriage is talking about getting away from children

Love is going to bed early
Marriage is going to sleep early

Love is a romantic drive
Marriage is a tarmac drive

Love is losing your appetite
Marriage is losing your figure

Love is sweet nothing's in the ear
Marriage is sweet nothing's in the bank

Love is a flickering flame
Marriage is a flickering television

Love is 1 drink and 2 straws
Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!"

July 04

Let's give a shout-out and applause to Zheng Jie

    China's Zheng Jie continued to surprise all the tennis fans back home. She became the first Chinese player to reach the semifinals of a Grand Slam tournament Tuesday, beating Nicole Vaidisova 6-2, 5-7, 6-1 at Wimbledon.

    The 24-year-old sweet girl has also become the first female wild-card entrant to ever reach the semifinals at the All England Club and second at any Grand Slam.

Zheng Jie expressed her excitement after the game. "My thinking is much simpler. I've never thought I can make it to the semifinal."

    In only her third appearance at Wimbledon, the 133rd-ranked Zheng Jie has so far beaten French Open champion Ana Ivanovic and three other seeded players.

    Last night( Beijing Time 22:30), she faced eight-time Grand Slam champion Serena Williams, who had won the title at Wimbledon twice in her career.

Zheng Jie and Williams have only met once before, with the American winning in straight sets in the first round at Wimbledon in 2004.

    The falling rain interrupted the match twice. At the beginning, Zheng Jie did not adapt Williams with her serve, and lost round 1 quickly at 2-6.

    When the game restarted after the rain, Zheng Jie apparently had adjusted her strategy and brought the round 2 match to 6-6, but she took faults with her twice serve, gave the chance to Williams to win 7-6 ending the match.

    Williams’ advandage is her serve, when Zheng Jie found the solution she will take William down, it’s not a long time.     You will make it, Zheng Jie, go, go, go.

 
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